last night, I got a call from a friend.
He said he chose me to vent out all his thoughts since I can give a fair judgment on what he needs to do. (at ako na ang pinaka-maganda)
He and his partner are currently having some problems - trust issues.
He told me his side of story and to make it short.
His partner was telling him na "ginagago daw siya".
With a proof of seeing him visiting a neighbor (who's an all-time kababata) in the middle of night. My friend explained that he just wants someone to talk to since the partner was not around during that time (for all he know was in the province) but he's far way wrong
(nasa Manila na pala si partner, nagmamatyag kung ano ang ginagawa ng friend ko while he's away kunwari)
Lumayas si partner (since they're living under the same roof) and went to his old house.
Next morning, my friend tried to bring him back home, totally apologizing, making his partner feel that he's at fault with what happened (kahit wala naman) but then si partner still said no, he won't come back and wants to end the relationship.
my friend now is in dilemma if he'll still try to win his partner back or will he give up.
Isa lang alam niya, mahal na mahal niya si partner.
Pero ayaw niya lang sana na dumating ang time, na baka mamaya, may mas mababang reason for a fight then all of a sudden, his partner would just ask for freedom.
Our conversation suddenly stopped, lowbatt na pala si friend. I just sent him a message:
---------, bsta, juz pray and ul find ur answers.
keep safe. but if in the event na hindi mu na kaya, spare some for urself.
And nd2 lng kame.. Keep safe!
Then I asked RS what's the best advice I can give him,
sabi nya, it's better not to give any.
Any decision should be from the person himself.
Kung maging okay, okay na,
Kung hindi, e di hindi,
but in time he'll soon realize that it happened for a reason.
Okay nman siguro yung sinabi ko sa kanya kahit
(leche! anu ba? tama na! ang gusto kong sabihin, hanap tayo ng iba jan)
you can still find someone na mas deserving
(kahit friend ko din si partner mo)
pero giving the "what-if" factor can somehow help him
at least, wala siyang pwedeng pagsisihan sa huli.
***ang matindi pa nito, he's at the company's sleeping quarters,
waiting for his partner's 15 minute breaks and Lunch,
assuring him, showing him that he's doing nothing bad/against their relationship.
Considering the fact that by 8am the following morning,
he still has to go to work.
As of now, we're waiting kung anu ang story ni partner.