my friend's call...



last night, I got a call from a friend.
He said he chose me to vent out all his thoughts since I can give a fair judgment on what he needs to do. (at ako na ang pinaka-maganda)
He and his partner are currently having some problems - trust issues.


He told me his side of story and to make it short.
His partner was telling him na "ginagago daw siya".
With a proof of seeing him visiting a neighbor (who's an all-time kababata) in the middle of night. My friend explained that he just wants someone to talk to since the partner was not around during that time (for all he know was in the province) but he's far way wrong
(nasa Manila na pala si partner, nagmamatyag kung ano ang ginagawa ng friend ko while he's away kunwari)


Lumayas si partner (since they're living under the same roof) and went to his old house.
Next morning, my friend tried to bring him back home, totally apologizing, making his partner feel that he's at fault with what happened (kahit wala naman) but then si partner still said no, he won't come back and wants to end the relationship.


my friend now is in dilemma if he'll still try to win his partner back or will he give up.
Isa lang alam niya, mahal na mahal niya si partner.
Pero ayaw niya lang sana na dumating ang time, na baka mamaya, may mas mababang reason for a fight then all of a sudden, his partner would just ask for freedom.


Our conversation suddenly stopped, lowbatt na pala si friend. I just sent him a message:


---------, bsta, juz pray and ul find ur answers.
keep safe. but if in the event na hindi mu na kaya, spare some for urself.
And nd2 lng kame.. Keep safe!


Then I asked RS what's the best advice I can give him,
sabi nya, it's better not to give any.
Any decision should be from the person himself.
Kung maging okay, okay na,
Kung hindi, e di hindi,
but in time he'll soon realize that it happened for a reason.


Okay nman siguro yung sinabi ko sa kanya kahit
(leche! anu ba? tama na! ang gusto kong sabihin, hanap tayo ng iba jan)
you can still find someone na mas deserving
(kahit friend ko din si partner mo)
pero giving the "what-if" factor can somehow help him
(i think?)
at least, wala siyang pwedeng pagsisihan sa huli.


***ang matindi pa nito, he's at the company's sleeping quarters,
waiting for his partner's 15 minute breaks and Lunch,
assuring him, showing him that he's doing nothing bad/against their relationship.
Considering the fact that by 8am the following morning,
he still has to go to work.




As of now, we're waiting kung anu ang story ni partner.
(chismoso ba?)



11 comments:

  1. ikaw na si Oprah! ahahaha.

    oks lang na mag-advice, at the end of the day naman sila pa rin ang magdedecide.eeeeeeeeeeeee. ako na nag-seryoso. :P

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  2. i think tama lang yung sinabo mo.
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    pag tayo nanghihingi ng advise, hindi totoong hindi natin alam kung ano gagawin.
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    madalas nyan gusto lang natin marinig ang opinyon ng iba so we could weigh in more with our thoughts.
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    P.S. ang cute mo sa profile pic, hehe

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  3. @nimmy > tamah! at hindi ko nga maxado na-keri kasi seryoso. pero minsan lang nman. hehe

    @DB > yup yup, lalo na sken, much needed ang opinion ng ibang tao kasi minsan, hindi ko nakikita ang bigger picture ng mga pangyayari.. haayz..

    nweiz, tnx po sa paglike.. haba n jan hair ko, i'll be cutting it short na, soon.. ^_^

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  4. pak na pak! ikaw na ang cute sa profile pic sabi ni DB. eeeee.

    @DB - hindi na ba si *tooot* ang crush mo??? :P

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  5. nimmy ha, wag kang pa-issue.. ahaha..(wishful thinking naman ako)

    lol

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  6. MAhirap magpayo lalo na kung kumplikado, marami akong napayuhan, simpleng problema lang. Pero sa huli sila pa rin ang nasunod, hanggang sa naging problema nya ulit yun. Ayaw makinig sa payo, lapit naman ng lapit.

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  7. tsk tsk, ewan ko trust issues
    sila rin naman ang makaka resolve niyan. mas mabuting wag ka nang makialam sa kanila. ako na si geoff eigenmann.

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  8. @mokz >> uu, lapit ng lapit, pero di ba nga, bka enlightenment ang gusto nila..

    @jin >> uu geff eigenmann / jollibee / flash elorde.. ahaha
    ndi nman ako nakikialam, nagtatanong lang nman un tao eh.. hehe

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  9. Just passing by. Napapadpad sa kung kani-kaninong blog. Kaya ako napa-comment ay dahil sa naalala ko yung high school times, na kelangan mong pumili ng side kapag nag-break yung dalawa mong kabarkada.. wala akong piniling side, nagiging loner ako. haha

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  10. Just passing by. Napapadpad sa kung kani-kaninong blog. Kaya ako napa-comment ay dahil sa naalala ko yung high school times, na kelangan mong pumili ng side kapag nag-break yung dalawa mong kabarkada.. wala akong piniling side, nagiging loner ako. haha

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  11. @will> naku,, never ka dapat pumili ng side kasi bad un., dapt both ay friends mu pa din.. hehe..

    thanks for dropping by.. balik lang!

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