i was browsing over my old pics (at dito yun sa office.. ahaha)
then i came accross a pic of me and a friend.
I really dunno if I should name him or not kasi he's an uber discreet being.
Way back in 2008 (if tama pagkaka-remember ko sa year), we met once when I went home sa province (dito kasi ako sa manila nagwowork then siya, nasa province, still studying) Sakto naman that my parents we're not around, so solo ko lang ang house namin and kahit naman nandyan parents ko, kebs lang nila if may kasama ako or wala. It's one thing na pinagpapasalamat ko, they never asked too much.
So, we met sa isang mall and first time ko siya makikita in person kasi puro chat, text and call lang kame. Eksena pa nga noon, kasi uber lowbatt na ako, buti na lang, he stayed sa isang place at nakita ko agad siya. Sabi ko nga, mas wafu xa sa picture pero choosy pa ba ako noon? wag na, keri na un. hehehe
without any echos, we went home.
Bumili na lang kame noon ng food outside for our dinner then watch lang TV (syempre, kelangan, hugging each other na)
and sinundan na siya ng umaatikabong ...
(haaay, i can still remember,, remember his smile)
As a conclusion: it was a fun night.
Ako kasi, typical yata akong bakla before, mabilis ma-fall, konting kembot na pa-sweet lang sa'kin, inlababo na agad ako. kaya nga siguro marami akong naging boyfriend before but didn't last, average ko noon, 4 months at ang least period, 2 weeks.
At dahil he was so sweet to me and we usually have the same likes, I guess, pwede na nga kameng maging mag-partner pero prior, we made an agreement. I told him that we're better off without any commitment, not because magkaiba kame ng ugali, pero dahil nga pareho kame ng ugali and for some other reasons..
1. Pareho kameng flirt
2. Pareho kameng seloso
3. Magkalayo kame
4. May partner yata ako noon (?)
5. May kinikiri siya noon (!)
which he whole-heartedly accepted..
The next morning, we parted our ways and we're happy seeing each other. Hindi kame nagsisi that it happened like a one-night-stand.
Until now, we still talk and make good conversations.
Yun nga lang, we didn't plan for any meet-ups again.
This made me realize, that in one way or the other,
a commitment may not always be necessary for two people to care for each other,
And it depends on the situation.
** last post for my working week, happy weekends!